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poster image with picture of pumpkin like fruit lichabungwe the subject of the bukusu proverb on sacred cows

Meaning of Bukusu Proverb on Sacred Cows: Khutila Lichabungwe Esibuno

Mbo notila khuyo, aba olinge owambile lichabungwe esibuno nono solakanyala ta! Meet the Bukusu proverb on sacred cows. A newspaper editor once said: “To determine the true rulers of any society, all you must do is ask yourself this question: Who is it that I am not permitted to criticize?” Daily Nation “Sacred cows exist; […]

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poster featuring filtered image of mannequin on the floor with a broken neck and titled: dead men tell tales - an intro to bukusu death rituals.

Dead Men Tell Tales: Khukhongokha Likosi, Khumina Chimoni and other Bukusu Death Rituals

When it seemed fairly certain that natural death was imminent, a terminally ill person was placed in front, or the center of his first wife’s house. In Lubuksu, munju mwo mukhaye simakulu. Family and friends were informed about the impending matter. All kith and kin were expected to come and pay tribute to the ailing

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painting of garden of Eden a place where in Lubukusu we might expect to find embwa ya wele, the dogs of god

Embwa ya Wele: A phrase that succinctly captures the richness of Lubukusu

Today, lets talk Lubukusu, the language of  Mubukusu.  Lubukusu is rich: lustrous when spoken, immensely expressive in song and damn descriptive in capturing the quintessence of our ways such as when naming our children or when tying the knot as in khuboa chinyinja.  Look, I am Bukusu who was majorly schooled in Maragoli land.  I am one

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khoboa chinyinja bukusu traditional marriage poster featuring image of beaded necklace with heart pendant

Marriage goals: All about khuboa chinyinja, a unique and cardinal of Bukusu traditional wedding ceremonies

When a Bukusu couple are made one, Bukusu marriage customs observed, enganana taken place and dowry paid, it comes a time when culture demands that the couple celebrate the longevity of their union in a special way. The Maragoli had kuvika kesegese and kuruta as the traditional seals of marriage. It is the former that

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a shop in matisi with a saboat saying

Sights & Sounds Of Trans Nzoia: Rare Wisdom From Matisi

On your way out of Trans Nzoia county headquarters, Kitale town, towards Endebess at the foot of Mt. Elgon on the Kenya-Uganda border; Matisi town straddles the ‘highway’ over a stretch of a kilometer thereabouts. Here, deep in mulembe, we find a Saboat saying that however aged, distills the answer to questions that still dog

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